I’m sure everyone who’s had sex knows the pleasure a dildo can bring – but have you ever wondered what lies inside the dark recesses of your anus that it touches? This was a question that was rumbling around in my head for some time, so I decided to dig deeper and find out.
First off, the anus is full of nerve endings, meaning that even the slightest touch could send waves of pleasure cascading through your body. This is why employing a dildo correctly can be so incredibly enjoyable. Furthermore, the lining of the anus itself is incredibly thin so it can detect even the slightest vibration when a dildo is thrust into it.
Then there’s the musculature inside the anus. Inserting anything into the anus causes the muscles to contract, making the experience even more pleasurable, particularly when the dildo is withdrawn. As if that weren’t enough to get your pulse racing, the anus is also home to a range of different glands and naturally occurring bacteria, some of which can produce an intoxicating odor when aroused.
But what about the dildo itself? Well, dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors, and they can be made from both hard and soft materials depending on your preferences. Soft dildos, for example, provide a more natural experience as they mould to the shape of your body, whereas hard dildos give a more intense feeling.
Finally, as you prepare to insert the dildo into the anus, it’s important to make sure that you’re taking the necessary precautions to ensure that your experience is as enjoyable as possible. Lubrication is a must if you want the experience to be pleasurable, and if it’s your first time using a dildo then make sure you start with something small.
Now that we’ve outlined what’s to be found inside the anus when it comes to using a dildo, let’s take a closer look on the importance of making sure that you keep your dildo clean. Cleaning your dildo regularly helps to reduce the risk of infection and irritation, so make sure you give it a good clean with warm water and mild soap once you’re done using it.
When it comes to dildos, material is also worth considering – not just for comfort but also for hygiene reasons. If you’re looking to avoid the risk of infection, opt for a dildo made of silicone, glass, or stainless steel, as these are all non-porous materials and won’t absorb bodily fluids or bacteria.
It’s fair to say that the physical sensations experienced when using a dildo are nothing short of amazing, but let’s not forget the psychological impact using one can have. Not only can it help you to explore your own desires, but it can also help to improve communication with your partner. It’s also worth remembering that using a dildo can help to reduce anxieties about sex, and can even improve self-esteem.
The areas of focus now turn to the many types of dildo play; from clitoral stimulation to exploring anal and genital penetration. Vibrators are popular for clitoral play because they can provide an intensity that fingers and even tongues sometimes cannot. Intimate areas in and around the anus can also be stimulated with smaller dildos or vibrators when used in tandem with lubrication for the ultimate pleasure.
That being said, you don’t have to just use a dildo for penetration. It can also be a tool for exploring BDSM activities such as spanking, bondage, or simply be used for its visual appeal during foreplay. Since dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes and materials, the possibilities for creative activities can really be much bigger than one would think.
Enough talk, let’s move on to something really interesting – temperature play. Using a dildo that is either hot or cold to stimulate the most sensitive parts of your body can take your pleasure to the next level. Just be sure to check the temperature of the dildo beforehand to ensure that it isn’t too hot or cold for your skin.
Lastly, let’s not forget the importance of enjoying the moment and being in the moment when playing with a dildo. Whether you’re alone or with a partner, the most important thing is that you’re enjoying yourself and that you’re listening to your body’s signals. That way, you can make sure that you’re always receiving the maximum pleasure from your dildo of choice.