I definitely remember my first dildo purchase. It was rather daunting and surprising, all at the same time. I was unsure if I really needed lube for it, and I was slightly embarrassed to ask about it to a salesperson or even a friend. The truth is, lube makes the experience much more enjoyable. It’s so slick and slippery that it takes the discomfort away and makes the insertion really smooth.
So let me start by answering the question: do you need lube for a dildo? In short, the answer is yes! Lube is a must have when using a dildo. Sure, it’s possible to have pleasure without it, but it’s significantly improved when it’s used. It helps the penetration more pleasurable and comfortable and can totally change the experience for the better. Plus, it makes clean up a breeze.
Believe it or not, but there are actually a few types of lube. You can use any type that works best for you, but be aware, some lubes can interact with dildo materials. You don’t want to use a lube that could potentially ruin your dildo, so it’s best to get one with a material specifically made for dildos. This is especially important if your dildo is made of silicone or an insertable toy with a texture.
I found that the thicker silicone based lubes worked best for me. It had the right amount of slip and last longer than water-based lube. Some have a slightly nasty, oily after taste and smell that can take away from the moment. So, I tried an organic, all-natural lube which turned out to be so much better. It didn’t leave a strange aftertaste and provided the perfect amount of lubrication. I couldn’t have been more pleased!
Once I tried the organic lube on my dildo, I never looked back. It was truly a magical experience and I’d suggest everyone to use it when they try their first dildo. Trust me- you won’t regret it! You’ll love how slippery and smooth it can be with just the right amount of lube. Who knew that something so small can make such a huge difference?
I also recommend people to be careful when choosinf which type of lube to buy. Don’t get tempted by cheaper lubes; they can irritate the skin and disturb the intimate area’s natural pH, leading to infections. Do some research before you make any decisions, and if you’re unsure, ask your doctor for advice. When in doubt, opt for the organic, all-natural lube I mentioned earlier- it definitely won’t fail you.
You should also know that it’s normal to have issues when using a dildo, even with lube. Even if you seem to do everything correctly, it might not feel right for you right away- it took me quite some time to get used to the feeling. So, don’t give up if it feels strangely and awkward the first few times. You will get used to it with practice and patience!
Now, on to the fun(and messy) part- clean up! This is just as important as using lube, because a dildo left uncleaned can cause some serious health issues. To clean it, use warm water and a mild cleaner, or sex toy cleaner. Don’t use your regular soap, because it can damage the integrity of the lube. Make sure to scrub it thoroughly and pat it dry with a towel. Then, store it in a safe place, away from the sun and extreme temperatures.
Using dildos with lube is an amazing experience, and with the right precautions, you can make it even more fun and comfortable. Just remember: lube is a must, choose the right type, and don’t forget to clean!